Ilona Paris, LMHC 

In addition to her professional career as one of the leading dominatrixes in the international scene, Ms. Paris has her Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology, and is a licensed Mental Health Counselor. She has been a specialist for the City of Boston in developing a Trauma Program for women who have co-occurring disorders in mental health, substance abuse and trauma for inner city women. She also has specialized in working with substance abuse in two Boston clinics dealing with methadone treatment.

Additionally, Ms. Paris maintains a private practice in which she specializes in counseling people who are into alternative lifestyles in their sexuality. Her main focus is to give non-judgmental support to individuals so they can develop healthy foundations, whatever their sexual outlook. Ms. Paris believes that only certain individuals are born with a “kink gene” that usually manifests between the ages of 7 and 12. She has great empathy in talking with and about those who are into the more unusual aspects of sexual expression.

She has been featured on panels for the Fenway Community Health Center and at Cambridge College as a specialist in alternative lifestyles, hired as an expert on the Richard Sharpe case (a transvestite dermatologist in Massachusetts who murdered his wife) and been a guest speaker on numerous radio shows discussing a variety of clinical issues in the treatment of women with co-occurring disorders. She has represented the Boston Public Health Commission while speaking on trauma on WBZ-AM. She has discussed the Pamela Smart murder case on The Dennis & Callahan Show on WEEI- 850 AM, and has represented her alma mater, The John Robert Powers Modeling School, on KISS–108FM (one of Boston’s largest radio stations), discussing the lives of supermodels. As Lady Leopard, she has represented herself on WAAF 107.3 FM in a three-hour special on the Jay Ferrera Show, after which Mr. Ferrera said “Lady Leopard lit up the phones like Christmas trees” and offered her a weekly spot on his show. (She declined to take the spot, planning to tickle the public with her own show once You Know You Love It hits the shelves.)

Aside from promoting herself on panels and radio, Ms. Paris has gotten herself featured several times in the specialized glossy magazine Dominatrix Directory International (DDI). Her research in the field of sadomasochism has been featured in the newsletter The New England Leather Association, as well as other leading fetish periodicals. An active member of Kink Aware Professionals (KAP), a national directory featuring doctors, lawyers and spiritual leaders who specialize in supporting erotic minorities, Ms. Paris truly has a national following among people “in the Scene.”

Beautiful, poised and commanding, Ilona Paris is also something you wouldn’t expect – hilariously funny. She has the ability to charm audiences with her combination of strong womanly presence and crazy earthy humor. As befitting someone who has been a professional fashion model, ballet dancer, actress, art dealer, modeling instructor and freelance beauty writer, she is an unusual mix of style, candor and zaniness. She has a charismatic ability to connect with her audience, whether in a one-on-one interview or over the airwaves to thousands of people. All in all, you couldn’t invent someone who’ll make a better spokesperson for the unorthodox yet endlessly fascinating practice of S&M, introducing the community at large to the joys and perils of the dominatrix lifestyle.


Dossie Easton

Dossie Easton currently lives in San Francisco, California and is a licensed marriage and family therapist. Her previous experience includes two years of working in a battered women’s shelter and nine years of working with adult survivors of child abuse in residential treatment. Dossie Easton is co-author with Janet Hardy of a book entitled The Ethical Slut, a guide to infinite sexual possibilities as well as The Bottoming Book , The Topping Book , When Someone You Love is Kinky and her most recent book release is entitled Radical Ecstasy. She writes and publishes spectacularly filthy poetry, and has been an active sex radical since 1962. Dossie Easton was one of the first members of the Society of Janus in San Francisco, and has been a leader in the emerging area of S/M practice that links S/M and spirituality. Dossie Easton also speaks on a variety of topics at leather/BDSM events throughout the country.


Charles Moser, PhD, MD, FACP

Charles Moser, PhD, MD, FACP received his Ph.D. in 1979 in Human Sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. He received his M.D. from Hahnemann University in 1991 in Philadelphia. He is also Licensed Clinical Social Worker in California and maintained a private psychotherapy practice specializing in the treatment of sexual concerns prior to his medical career. He is board certified in Internal Medicine by the American Board of Internal Medicine and a Fellow of the American College of Physicians. Currently, Dr. Moser is a Professor and Chair, Department of Sexual Medicine at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. He also maintains an Internal Medicine private practice focused on the Sexual Medicine (the sexual aspects of medical concerns and the medical aspects of sexual concerns) and the general medical care of sexual minorities. He has authored or co-authored over 40 scientific papers or books. His complete CV can be accessed at http://home.netcom.com/~docx2/CV.htm.

Books Include:

  • “Health Care Without Shame: A handbook for the Sexually Diverse and their Caregivers”
  • Charles Moser is co-author with Janet Hardy for the book entitled “Sex Disasters and How to Survive Them.”

Dr. Gloria Brame

The author of landmark sex books, including Different Lovingand The Truth About Sex: A Sex Primer For The 21st Century,  Gloria is internationally renowned for her pioneering work in removing the stigma from BDSM and fetish sex. She is a much sought-after expert on BDSM and fetish sex, sex science, sexual wellness, sexual techniques, and relationships skills.   Her authoritative and original insights into human sexuality have made her one of the most frequently cited sex experts in the world.

Described as a “sexologist’s sexologist” by Dr. Ted McIlvenna and “the Einstein of kinky sex” by Annie Sprinkle, Dr Brame has worked with hundreds of grateful clients in her fifteen years of private therapy.   Her interpersonal techniques combined with cutting-edge research on the psycho-biology of sex are focused on finding the best ways to bring healing and comfort to people with sex or relationship problems.

Dr. Brame provided expert testimony in Nitke vs Ashcroft (2005) in opposition to the Communications Decency Act; consulted with the Fulton County (GA) DA to ascertain severity and intent of a sex crime; provided victim care for the State of Kansas in the “Slavemaster” serial killer case;  and has given depositions and sexological opinions to other attorneys and law enforcement agencies across the United States on matters of sexual consent.

Brame holds an M.A. in English Literature (Columbia University, 1978)  and a PhD. in Human Sexuality (Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, 2000) and was certified as a sexologist by the American College of Sexologists. Brame is a full professor (visiting) at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality.

Some highlights from 2015:

Awarded, “The 30 Top Sexperts of 2015”,  School of Squirt, sex ed website

Awarded,“15 Best Sexperts of 2015” by Dating Advice, http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/15-best-sexperts-2015

Contributor, The International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality (John Wiley & Sons, 2015), biography of “Marquis de Sade

Empaneled Sexual Health Expert, MediAngels, global e-hospital serving the Third World

Nominated, 2015 Sex and Medicine Summit Awardhttp://sexandmedicinesummit.com/awards/

Quoted in  Buzzfeed, Salon, Mic, Vice, The Bustle,  Shape, Cosmo, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Vocativ, Racked, Popdust, Good Housekeeping, HuffPo, Brides, and other publications worldwide.  Learn more about Dr. Brame’s amazing expertise on all matters sex-related at Dr. Brame in the News